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Too Serious To Laugh
Julie Bartkus
Have you ever faced a
situation that you felt was just too serious to laugh about?
Many people feel that some
things in life are just too serious to laugh about. But did you
know that laughter is a way to relieve stress and a way to cope with
life’s tough challenges?
Sandra Baker had cancer and
tells us that laughter helped heal her. Bethany Hamilton’s arm was
bitten off four inches below her shoulder and she used humor to cope
with the situation and to ease other’s discomfort with the
situation. A little boy’s eyesight was failing due to a
degenerative disease, and with the help of his father and humor, he
was able to focus on the blessings he did have. Gloria Estefan
nearly died in a bus accident and used humor to lighten the mood as
doctors worked with her to restore her health.
Laughter in itself has been reported to have
miraculous healing powers. Norman
Cousins, author of Anatomy of an Illness, writes that
laughter played a major role in restoring his health and mobility
after being almost completely paralyzed from a life threatening
disease. Norman’s story is fascinating one.
Dr. Lee Berk and Dr. Stanely
Tan, two California scientists who research the effects of humor and
laughter, state that many positive benefits can be gained by
incorporating humor into daily life.
Laughter helps control
pain and stress, lowers blood pressure, helps fight diseases, and is
aerobic, providing a workout for the diaphragm.
In a study conducted by Hajime
Kimata, MD, PhD from Japan, humor was determined to be effective
with relieving allergy symptoms for up to four hours by patients who
suffered with dermatitis.
Sandra Baker who I mentioned
in the opening paragraph of this article, states that laughter
helped heal her when she had cancer.
Following are several
strategies she recommends to help people laugh more.
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Read funny cards at
stores. |
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Do something for yourself
every day. |
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When you get frustrated
with someone or something – perhaps your boss – get a roll of
toilet paper and write all the things that frustrate you on it.
At the end of the week, flush all of the toilet paper that you
wrote on (and your negative feelings) down the drain and out of
your mind. |
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Draw a
cartoon of your frustrating experience. |
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Look at
the pictures on cards and think of something funny to say about
the picture. |
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Have fun
and laugh every day that ends in y. |
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Keep a
book filled with pictures, cards, or other positive things that
you can review to help lift your spirits. |
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Watch
funny tapes. Sandra watched I love Lucy videos during
her chemotherapy treatments. |
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Attend a
comedy show. The day Sandra found out she had breast cancer she
went to a comedy club and laughed the night away. |
So what do you do if you find
there’s nothing funny to laugh about? Well, studies have shown that
if you simply force yourself to laugh for several minutes you will
still reap many benefits. Humor increases your body’s ability to
utilize oxygen and increases your immunity to infections by
instantly increasing a flood of disease-fighting cells and proteins
into the blood.
Can’t force a laugh on your
own? Try tape recording children laughing and play the tape to
yourself when you need a laugh. I bet you’ll at least crack a
smile. Remember, it takes only 26 muscles to smile and 62 to frown.